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Why I Am On OkCupid

Before I write about the OKC questions that men answer. I’m going to tell you why I am on OKC.

  • The real reason I signed for OKC was because of curiosity. I have a friend whose aunt made her make one. I made fun of her for it but when I saw the guys on OKC. I became very curious.
  • Over time, school and work took over my life and I was under 21. So meeting guys was difficult
  • I almost work full time and even though I’m 21, I get very tired from my job and not wanting to go out all the time.
  • My friends aren’t very good wing people and poor. They’re too into talking with our friends and not wanting to talk to other new people. Oh and they’re poor.
  • I’m picky. REALLY picky.
  • I live in suburbia
  • I don’t date within my circle of friends or date co-workers
  • I like older men. I think it’s hard for me to approach them and hard for them to approach me since it can be “taboo.”
  • It’s fun! I love getting to know new people. Sure, I can have my down moments but in the end, I think of the good moments that happened.

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I’ve been M.I.A

I know, I know. Where have I gone?!!?

Work has been crazy busy so I had no time to post. I will be soon!

Stay tuned.

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Ugh, recognizing everyone from okcupid today.

Why?

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Only this happens to me:

Recognizing men from okcupid that I have never met.

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Non-Dealbreakers!

For fucking sakes, let me write something positive, maybe to get your hopes up or err… something.

So non-dealbreakers! 

Here they are:

Smokers- I don’t have a problem with smokers, as long they can respect my space when smoking, I’m cool with it.

Income- I don’t care how much money you make as long you can pay for things, I’m a-ok!

Religion- I guess just don’t be hardcore on religion

Transportation- I don’t care if you own a car or not. I don’t care if you take the bus or ride your bike. I’m more focused on YOU.

Grammar/Spelling- Everyone makes mistakes. I do. So no worries.

Degrees- I don’t care if you got or didn’t get a bachelors or masters or phd. As long you are smart and continue to educate yourself and show it, I will want to get in your pants

Living- If you live with your parents, that’s ok. It’s tough times. Roommates? No problem. As long we get privacy, I’m happy.

Kinks- I’m kinky. REALLY kinky, but if you’re not then that’s ok. I like vanilla but hopefully someday you’ll enjoy my kinks :)

A Hermit?- So am I! We don’t always have to go out.

Exercise- You can be active or not. Doesn’t really matter to me. I’m a bum myself.

Style- Don’t really have one? That’s ok! Although it has become important to me since I dress well myself but it isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker.

Never Traveled?- I haven’t traveled much either. Only to Guate, and major American cities. I won’t put you down for that.

Cooking- Can’t cook or don’t know how to? Let me teach you!

Sexuality- Bisexual? Queer? Questioning? Hey, more fun for us!

I think that’s it for my non-dealbreakers.

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Yay! A persons who likes my blog!

Yay! A persons who likes my blog!

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You still didn’t tell your date…

You still didn’t tell your date…

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No, I will not forget that you’re 40.

No, I will not forget that you’re 40.

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He can’t do serious relationships but still a “good guy.”

He can’t do serious relationships but still a “good guy.”

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Sigghh…

Sigghh…